Ronna Louise White

I am a journalist with experience in writing various types of media including, yet not limited to, news, feature, crime, opinion and much more through diverse platforms.

Between the sheets: Using your head

Before attending Orange Coast College and taking Olga Perez Stable Cox’s Human Sexuality class I was clueless about the human body and being a sexual being.

Perez Stable Cox opened the eyes of all of her students by informing them about all things sexual, but the most informative thing that I feel I learned was how to properly give a mind blowing blow job.

Depending on your partner and his preferences, it may be difficult to find what makes him tick or possibly what he wants you to do but is too scared to ask.

If you want your man to experience the most intense orgasm of his life then learn how to give the best oral.

Everyone is capable of giving a guy head but not everyone knows how to approach it or even if they are doing a good job. A lot of guys would say that any blowjob is a successful one simply if the girl doesn’t use her teeth but I feel that you can better your skills and make him beg for more.

A lot of girls think that all you have to do is suck a guy’s penis and move your mouth around a little. That may be true but that’s definitely not a great blowjob, only a mediocre one and nobody wants that if they can have an amazing one.

The first tip I learned when giving a blow job was to approach it with tons of enthusiasm and energy. Being extremely excited and willing to give your man oral is super sexy and will drive him crazy right from the start.

The next thing you should do is go in slow. Tease your man for a while by kissing or licking the head of his penis before you jump in. You can also kiss his neck to arouse him even more.

When you’re ready to give him a blowjob make sure to focus mainly on the head of the penis since it has the most sensation but also don’t completely forget about the shaft. You can always jack him off while you give him head as well.

The most important thing I learned from Human Sexuality was that under the head of the penis where it meets the shaft is very sensitive and by stimulating it correctly you can make your man’s orgasm intense. Run your tongue over it softly or even provide more pressure and speed your tongue up to drive him insane.

Don’t be afraid to get a little sloppy with your saliva or even spitting into your hand when jacking him off. It will drive him crazy.

Lastly, don’t forget to stimulate his perineum, which is a soft patch of skin located between his testicles and anus. Some guys even like to have their balls played with, but not all do so be sure to communicate with your partner before doing anything he may be uncomfortable with.

Always communicate with your partner and see what he wants or what he is comfortable with. Not all guys are the same so their preferences can be completely different.

Have fun with it and don’t take it too seriously.

Giving blowjobs can be pretty fun and exciting when you’re informed on what makes your guy tick.

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This entry was posted on May 7, 2014 by in Column, Opinion.
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